There is an order to things. Make sure you are prepared.
I heard this quote the other day. Sorry, I can’t give any credit to its author.
It’s hard to prepare for something when you’re not ready for it.
Wait . . . isn’t that why we prepare?
Whether it is for an exam in school or a job interview, being prepared for the unexpected is at the very core of being prepared. You just know that curve ball is coming at you. That’s the teacher’s/interviewer’s mode of operation. It doesn’t mean you’ll pass/land the job, but you can minimize failure by being prepared.
I was a boy scout and our motto is “Be Prepared.” Scouting as an organization was founded by Robert Baden-Powell in the early 20th century. Upon his retirement from active scouting, B-P had this to say:
“Try and leave this world a little better than you found it and when your turn comes to die, you can die happy in feeling that at any rate you have not wasted your time but have done your best. ‘Be Prepared’ in this way, to live happy and to die happy — stick to your Scout Promise always — even after you have ceased to be a boy — and God help you to do it.”
What are you doing to be prepared? The scout motto of “Be Prepared” means that you are always in a state of readiness in mind and body to do your duty.
So I guess this post is about knowing your duty. Because if you know your duty, then you know what you have to do in order to be prepared.
The path is well-worn and defined. But it’s not too late to make a new one.
A customer came in last night looking for a particular item. It was going to be a special order item and the customer was willing to wait. No problem she said.
It was the way she said it that caught my attention. For some unknown reason, I immediately thought to myself, “I bet this woman is a real estate agent.” We talked about the item for a moment and then I got the courage to ask her if she was an agent. Maybe it was the way she presented herself or the way she was dressed. I just had a feeling.
And I was right. Without asking, she proceeded to tell her story of how she became an agent. After 30+ years as a flight attendant with a major airline, the events of 9/11 are an integral part of where she is today. Sitting in a training class, a supervisor addressed the employees about the need to make big personnel cuts in the wake of the terrible events from that day. Before she had time to talk herself out of a profession she truly loved, she took the early retirement deal and left to join her husband in the real estate world. End of story.
But it wasn’t the story that itself that piqued my interest. It was the way she spoke of her former employer. She wasn’t bitter about being pushed out. She was grateful for the 30+ years in a job she loved. She held no ill will for the CEO that announced the cuts. She spoke of him fondly as if he were a childhood friend. She wasn’t angry at the tragedy that changed the lives of so many around the world. She was thankful for the new life she now leads.
I told her she needs to write a book about her experience. It’s the kind of inspiration that could be a valuable lesson to a generation of 50-somethings that have to start a new career due to forces out of their control.
She’s already working on it.
Clean. Serene. Pristine. How much is it worth?
A common term in the real estate business. Banking too.
You don’t work in either of these industries? No problem.
How often do you get an appraisal on your business? On yourself?
A good friend asked me a beautiful question the other day about my writing.
Local business owners and leaders making connections.
Is a leader born knowing how to lead? A simple question but a complicated answer.
While you ponder that, a group from a local business association of which I’m a part, decided to work with local elementary schools through a reading program. We go in once every few months and are assigned a class in the K-2 range and read them a book.
A question I’m asking myself . . . can we make a difference with just a periodic influence? Maybe we should increase our presence to once a month. What about once a week? Every day perhaps?
It’s not about another accomplishment on my LinkedIn profile. It’s not screaming “look at me, look at me” . . .
What are you doing to build the next generation of leaders? Don’t let your (my) obsession with electronic gadgetry (put the phone down) get in the way of personal connections.
The stage is ready.
It’s not about leaving your comfort zone. Although if you are uncomfortable doing this, get comfortable in your uncomfortableness.
Getting out of the confines of your business are important to reach a new audience and expand your territory. And expand yourself.
Guess it’s time to buy bigger pants.
I guess it also works in this situation too.
The strong will realize when there really is no argument present.
The weak will attempt to divert attention away from the real issue.
You will never force the fool to understand your way of thinking and turn from the dark side. When logic, reason and truth don’t work, walk away. Because continuing to argue is like banging your head against a brick wall. Only you walk away bloody. The wall is still standing.
Wasn’t this just last year?
The average person blinks over 16,000 times a day while awake. That’s about 5% of our day going around with our eyes closed.
Here is your question of the day courtesy of Captain Obvious.
How much do you see with your eyes closed?
Some see music, some see art, some see dreams.
And some see nothing.
Just because your eyes are closed doesn’t mean your mind has to follow suit.